Build a better marriage than your parents knew how to.
Determined to do marriage "right"?
We've all seen too many marriages go south. We've heard the stats on divorce. We've wondered at times whether our own marriages will be able to
hold up over the long haul.
Lucky for you and me,
we've got access to information, resources,
and support that our parents' generation never had. We've got research-backed findings
about what makes marriages work for a lifetime.
And, we've got higher expectations.
We don't just want to be the longest-married couple on the dance floor.
We want to be the longest-married couple that actually still LOVES being married.
Cue the Marriage Nerd.
Hi there! I'm Rachel.
You might say I'm a bit of a marriage nerd.
I'm a relationship coach, and a
licensed marriage and family therapist
on a mission to help you level up your marriage.
So you don't end up like your parents.
And can genuinely ENJOY your life together.
I'm here to help you future-proof your relationship,
and change the generational narrative,
so you can like the person you married for life.
And so your kids have a better model
to aspire to for themselves.
I want to give you the tools you need
to build a rock-solid partnership
that can stand the test of time.
Ready to enjoy your marriage like never before?
Let's do this thing.
The Revive Your Marriage Roadmap
The Revive Your Marriage Roadmap is an 8-week group coaching course to help couples level up their marriage and build a rock-solid sense of partnership that can last a lifetime..
1) REFRAME
Learn what’s fair to expect of each other, decode the true meaning of conflict, and master your own emotions so you can stay connected even in the tough moments.
Module 1: ALIGN EXPECTATIONS
Module 2: DEMYSTIFY CONFLICT
Module 3: EMOTIONALLY REGULATE
2) REPAIR
Resolve old issues without defensiveness or resentment, rebuild emotional trust, and chart a confident course for better communication.
Module 4: FIGHT FAIR
Module 5: SHIFT THE NARRATIVE
Module 6: MAKE REPAIRS
3) RECONNECT
Learn to give and receive the affection and reassurance you both crave, and rally around a unifying sense of purpose for your life together.
Module 7: BUILD CONNECTION
Module 8: GROW INTIMACY
Module 9: MAKE MEANING
How Couples are Re-writing Their Story
Testimonials
"Working with Rachel was great;
I really loved that she helped us develop tools and techniques
to strengthen our bond and communication skills.
I've recommended her to many friends. She's friendly, easy to talk to, and has the skills, tools,
and knowledge you want.
I can't recommend her enough!"
“Rachel truly is gifted at
what she does! She can make
two very different people feel completely heard and understood.
It’s clear she has a passion for uniting couples and helping
people flourish in marriage.
I always leave our sessions feeling encouraged and empowered to love my husband better.”
"I've been genuinely surprised
by how immediately impactful and exciting working with Rachel
has been. I learn something
about my wife and myself every session, even the difficult ones,
and I feel our relationship strengthening each time."
FAQS
What is couples coaching, and how does it work?
Couples coaching is a time-limited, results-based, group experience for couples who are looking to take their relationship to the next level. The couples coaching program includes self-paced video lessons and assignments you can complete from home and discuss with your spouse, as well as 8 weeks of live group coaching and Q&A calls to help you apply what you're learning.
The Revive Your Marriage Roadmap coaching program includes lifetime access to the online learning modules, as well as lifetime access to a private Facebook group exclusively for couples who are a part of the program. This experience combines some of the best of what you'd learn in couples therapy, but in a applied format, with the support and community of other couples along the way.
How long does a typical coaching engagement last?
The Revive Your Marriage Roadmap program has an active 8-week long component that includes weekly group coaching calls and is meant to help you accelerate your progress as a couple. However, the program also includes lifetime access to the learning modules, and to a private Facebook group for couples who have gone through the program, so you can go back and revisit the content anytime or ask your questions of the group for ongoing support.
What makes Rachel Engels Coaching different from other coaching services?
Rachel Engels is a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of California (#120068), and she brings her decade of clinical experience to her coaching content and approach to helping couples. While her coaching program is not the same as therapy, you can trust that the insight she brings is based in research and experience, and tailored to what has worked for other real-life couples.
Who is couples coaching NOT a good fit for?
Couples coaching is not a good fit for couples dealing with severe or crisis-level issues, such as serious addiction, domestic violence, ongoing infidelity, or serious mental illness. If you are curious about whether or not this coaching program is a good fit for you, you are welcome to contact me, and if the program is not a good fit I would be happy to point you in the direction of other resources.
